PUT THE RIGHT FOOT FORWARD EACH DAY BLOG
Right foot. Not Left
I’ve made my choice
Hateful words matter not
Having been deafened by my strong voice
Every morning when we wake up, we have a choice. We can get out of bed in a good mood or we can get out of bed in a bad mood. The circumstances matter not. It’s a decision.
Same holds true when it comes to what we believe. We can choose to believe positive stuff about ourselves such as; Amazing, Creative, Happy, Beautiful, Strong, and Loving. Or, we can choose to believe the negative stuff bullies say to us such as; Loser, Dumb, Ugly, Dork, and Slut.
No matter what a bully may say, you have the power to decide whether or not to believe the words THEY think of you. Those words are NOT what you should think of yourself. EVER! Again…those are THEIR THOUGHTS, THEIR WORDS. They do not have to become your thoughts or your words, unless YOU decide to let them.
Make the decision today that from now on you are believing only good things about yourself. In other words, you are going to tune out any negative talk coming out of the mouth of a bully. What they say is of no value…it’s not important.
Think about it. Who put a bully in charge of deciding who is cool, who is not, who is a slut, who is a good girl, who is smart, who is dumb, who is gay, who is straight..etc. See how silly and pathetic a bully is? He or she is like Godzilla on a power trip. And we all know Godzilla is a made up character. You can write your own script and defeat him.
What you think of yourself is important and does have value. Who gives a hoot what a bully thinks of you. You have value and don‘t ever let anyone tell you otherwise…because if they do, know they are lying. You are important and you do have value.
Again, you have the power and control over your life. You can make it good or you can make it bad. A bully does not have that type of power over you unless you give it to them. You have to decide…right here…right now to take the control and the power back.
“Am I going to give the bully one more day of control over my life and make it miserable and make me feel bad about myself?”
The answer, “NO! I am no longer going to believe a bully’s opinion of me. For a bully is nothing more than an insecure person trying to appear powerful. I will be a victim no more.”
You choose which foot to put forward first. I’m believing that you are strong and will make the RIGHT choice.
Never Let A Bully Win. Fight Back. Live.
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