After Divorce: I Couldn't Really Move On Until I Moved Into a New House

I still grapple with the fact that in this new home is there no memory of him. ...more
Part where you wrote "it's always you and you are always alone" Is how I feel. People ...more

My Rabbi Found My Vibrator!

OK. Ladies, I may have some bad news. While it's usually OK to screw your brains out when you're pregnant, using a vibrator may be a little more risky. It's like this: No matter how incredible and mind-blowing your partner may be in bed (or in the backseat of a car, or in the shower, or on a pool table), orgasms from a vibrator are ... well, more electrifying. ...more
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Taking Selfies After My Divorce Helped Me Figure Out Who I Wanted To Be

Once my divorce was final, I became increasingly more active on social media. Along with taking more risks with what I was willing to share, I changed my profile picture for the first time in years. Fun! Now that I didn’t have to fit anyone else’s vision but my own, I could play with which pictures....more
lindasblogs yes agreed! Divorce can knock you out! And what kind of friends would trash talk a ...more

Why I Stayed In My Sexless Marriage

There's nothing in the world worse than knowing you have a serious problem that everyone else in the world seems to not have. For instance, a sexless marriage. ...more
I was relieved when I got to the end of this. I was worried the whole way through you would have ...more

8 Family Rules That Made Me Comfortable With My Sexuality

I was fortunate enough to have a sex-positive upbringing, and I know firsthand the confidence and security in oneself that feeling OK about your body and sexuality can bring about. ...more

Guys, Can You Please Stop Kissing My Mastectomy Scars?

By Dori Hartley for I started to see a pattern in the men I dated and, ironically, their affection made me feel unloved. I don't know how it happened or where it started, but we've become this race of weirdoes who can't tell if we want to condemn a person because of their looks or worship them for the very same reasons....more

I Needed to Find My Self-Respect Before I Could Find a Guy

All my problems with love all led back to one person: me. ...more
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We Need To Stop Seeing Ourselves As Sex Objects

Internalized objectification, self-objectification, female self-objectification ... call it what you will. It's seeing ourselves as sex objects for male sexual pleasure, and we need to talk about it NOW. ...more

I Had Vaginal Rejuvenation and Feel Like a New Woman

I just recently picked up a new vagina. It's brand new, shiny, and never been tested by man. You think I'm kidding, but its true: One week ago today, along with other repair surgeries, I had a vaginal reconstruction. I'm 37, but in more ways than one I feel like a new woman, a virtual born-again virgin....more
I almost peed myself reading this and, so far, I haven't hit blue whale status on the hoo-ha ...more

I Just Don't Like Sex

By Dori Hartley for YourTango.comI have a friend who claims to be an asexual. Asexual is a word that, to me, suggests a single-celled organism. Isn’t an asexual a creature who divides in two — or some kind of dual-gendered seahorse who fertilizes and carries his/her offspring to term? So I asked her what she meant by this claim and she said, “Well, I just don’t partake in sexual activity.” It seemed simple enough, yet I still couldn’t quite grasp this seemingly unnatural lack of sex-drive. “Ah,” I said. “So you’ve taken a vow of celibacy?” ...more
I can't even imagine... thank you for a different perspective. It is hard to wrap my head around ...more