I Found My G-Spot And It Wasn't All That 

Life's too short to be sad over G-spots. ...more

What I Learned About Myself When I Grew Out My Armpit Hair

When the whole armpit hair thing became all the rage this summer, I thought I'd give it a try. Unless you've been under a rock, there's a good chance you've been reading about women growing out their armpit hair for a variety of reasons. For some, it's bucking the patriarch and taking a feminist stand; for others it's all about being natural and parading about with hairy armpits just as a man would. ...more

Never Date Your Friend's Ex

Taylor Swift told Vanity Fair that she and her friends don’t care if one of them starts dating another's ex. She says that the girls in her squad are too important to each other to let something like that come between them. It brings up a good question though: Is it ok to date someone if they’re your friend’s ex? ...more

I'm Jealous Of His Ex-Wife

Jealousy is ugly on me. I suppose it's ugly on anyone, but it feels particularly nasty when I wear it. I would love to do away with it completely as an emotion, but it keeps cropping up again.> ...more

Don't Lie About Domestic Violence

Lying about domestic violence not only makes you selfish, but hurts the real victims who need help. ...more

A Guy Broke My Heart, My Dog Never Will

Breaking up and starting over with a canine in tow. I wasn't ready. No one is ever ready. But my live-in boyfriend at the time kept sending me the links from Petfinder. The pictures were all adorable. They all needed a home. They all stared back with eyes that said "please adopt and love me." The more I stared at these images, the more I began to consider it. I thought, hey, if we can do this together, share the cost, hire a dog walker, and forgo the house training thing with an adult dog, how hard could this be? ...more
I would actually throw myself in front of a bus for my two dogs (if there were a situation that ...more

My Husband and I Divorced Because I'm Educated and He Isn't

What I know now, but didn't then, is this: it's not enough for a couple to share sizzling chemistry, or a passion for growing heirloom tomatoes, or simply the determination that this one is The One, dammit. Other values must match up—values that never seem to matter when you've just taken up residence in the love shack. ...more
People, especially men, will tell you exactly who they are...all you have to do is listen and ...more

Don't Be Selfish By Having a Child-free Wedding

This summer, my husband and I have approximately 10,000 weddings to attend. OK, that's an exaggeration, but it definitely feels that way. In and of itself, our plenitude of weddings are a good thing. Drinks! Dinner! Butter cream frosting! The only problem with all these weddings this summer is that the vast majority of them don't include an invitation extended to our offspring....more
For some reason, I hadn't even thought there WERE child free wedding, since what extended family ...more

After Divorce: I Couldn't Really Move On Until I Moved Into a New House

I still grapple with the fact that in this new home is there no memory of him. ...more
Part where you wrote "it's always you and you are always alone" Is how I feel. People ...more

My Rabbi Found My Vibrator!

OK. Ladies, I may have some bad news. While it's usually OK to screw your brains out when you're pregnant, using a vibrator may be a little more risky. It's like this: No matter how incredible and mind-blowing your partner may be in bed (or in the backseat of a car, or in the shower, or on a pool table), orgasms from a vibrator are ... well, more electrifying. ...more
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