First Date Fiasco: He Expected Me To "Pitch" Him.

My first over-the-phone conversation with the lawyer should have set the red flags a-wavin'. He had a very specific list of rules for women he dated: ...more
GOODNESS!  I want to say "I CAN'T EVEN BELIEVE THIS" ........but, being back in the dating scene ...more

Widowed at 27: I Still Leave the Porch Lights On For My First Husband

I still leave the porch light on for my dead husband, even after finding love a second time. ...more
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An Affair Strengthened My Marriage

It began as a typical Saturday night out with my closest women friends. But on that particular evening as we sat, laughed and talked in a popular New York restaurant, acquaintances were seated nearby celebrating their friend Alex's* birthday. They invited us to join their table for a toast, which turned into several. When the house music came on and everyone headed for the bar, Alex — handsome and playful — took my hand and led me to the dance floor. ...more
I've been in James' shoes.  And my profile picture...I had that taken for my husband right ...more

My Number of Sexual Partners Doesn't Matter. Here's Why.

My number has zero bearing on who I am as person, nor does it suggest anything about my morals. ...more
As a relationship expert many men tell me they only care what the woman knows about sex and are ...more

How to Make a Sex Tape

You know how it is. Let's be frank; outside of porn stars in a carefully choreographed scene, most of us don't look so pretty in a sex video (looking at you, Paris). Plus, it's awkward as hell. And here's the proof, broken down into 13 stages for your convenience. ...more

Will Having Sex Before a Big Game Help Your Chances of Winning? Maybe?

Well, it seems like our previous World Cup sex article was a bit premature. A new study is shutting down the debate on whether sex has an effect on a team's chances to win it all for their country. ...more

I Love Casual Sex!

I love casual sex. I've often thought that the sentiment would look very lovely on a t-shirt with a great big, red heart replacing the word "love," you know, like all those "I [heart] NY" t-shirts that you can get five of for $15 on Broadway. If it weren't for casual sex, I'd still be clueless as to what I enjoy and what I can do without. I'd probably still think "doggy style" is the stuff of kink and would have a lot less fodder for my work. Basically, my life would be the pits. OK, so that latter part might be an exaggeration. Emphasis on "might."...more
Looooooved it! (Well, back when I didn't have a partner to have (uncasual?) sex with) What I ...more

12 Hot Guys With Cats

Fall is here, which means it's time to put on a sweater and snuggle up to the one you love. And for a few lucky kitties, that means snuggling up to some very, very sexy gentlemen. We should all be so lucky! ...more

10 Reasons Chris Hemsworth Is The Perfect Man. Because He Is

Chris Hemsworth isn't just perfect in "Rush." He's perfect in real life, too. These GIFs prove it! read more ...more

'Supernatural's Castiel Is Getting A New Lady Love Interest!

Fans of the CW hit Supernatural are used to meeting new characters, and the ninth season of the much adored series—which debuts Tuesday October 8 at 9 p.m. ET—is delivering yet another fresh face. But are the show's passionate fans happy with the newest addition? read more ...more