A Beginners Guide to Awesome Anal Sex

Anal sex can be incredibly hot but it is often misunderstood (no, enjoying anal sex doesn’t make someone gay, it merely means they like anal sex… and with all the nerve endings located in the anus, that’s not such a surprise!) and can be intimidating. But it’s not for everyone. If you have no desire to try anal sex, then don’t. Just like with any other sexual activity, you should never be pressured into doing something that you aren’t comfortable with....more
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Building Momentum: How Two Soccer Moms Founded a Sex Conference

I think about it and I can't believe it. Somehow Dee and I had gone from working mundane jobs and being over-protective moms (I wasn't a soccer mom myself, unless you extend "soccer" to include ice-skating and gymnastics -- then I fit right in) to founding a conference about sex. How did we get here? ...more

Momentum: Making Waves in Sexuality, Feminism, and Relationships - The Conference to Attend in 2012!

The second annual MOMENTUM Conference takes placeMarch 30 to April 1, 2012  in Washington, DC.  ...more

Sexy Tips from Personal Trainers - Part I

Even if your body type fits the current media/fashion inspired ideal of what is beautiful, essentially thin is in, working out is necessary for everyone in order to maintain a level of physical and cardiovascular fitness. Don't work out because you want change who you are and squeeze yourself into that little box mainstream media tells you is desirable, work out because you'll feel better and when you feel good, you also feel sexy and desirable. ...more
Loving this article, thanks J.J. Glad I friended you to share this article with my circle~more

Unique Vibrators: Exploring the Cutting Edge of Eroticism

The days when all sex toys were classified as novelty items are slowly changing. Now, manufacturers, realizing that their customers are smart and savvy enough to consider sex toys as essential to their sexual health as well as their pleasure, are creating toys that are designed to be enjoyed for a long, long time. They’re often beautiful to gaze upon; form and function meet, combining powerful motors in aesthetically pleasing or even high tech designs. Here are some phenomenal products from manufacturers who aim to please!...more
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The 411 on Non-Porous Sex Toy Materials

Materials matter. The toy you decide to get it on and get off with deserves the proper care so it can continue to live a long and happy life, always eager and ready to serve you. Proper care changes from material to material, so let’s see what materials dildos and vibrators are commonly made of and talk about how to give them the love they need so they can love you long time....more
Tess, do you know what martrials the Sybian machine in made from and if it is a non-porous ...more

How to Multiply Your Orgasms with Sex Toys

Any orgasm is a good orgasm, but, let's face it, some are better than others. Have you learned what it takes to get your orgasms to go from satisfying to off-the-chart? Getting to know yourself through masturbation can help you achieve even better orgasms with your partner. ...more
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Sex Toys and the Sexy Senior

The woman who got me started thinking about spicy hot senior sex, ageless sexuality advocate Joan Price is the author of Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty and Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex, leads by example. Since 2005, Joan has relentlessly blogged about senior sex....more

Great Article Tess! Bill & Desiree are an older couple who were in a Comstock erotic film a few ...more

Sex and the Sexy Senior

Though I won’t divulge my age, I’ll readily admit that AARP keeps trying to recruit me.  Apparently, while I may not think of myself as a senior, AARP considers me ripe for the picking.  But I will tell you this, no matter what my age or whether I consider myself a cougar, a senior or a simply a woman who happens not to be in her twenties (or thirties or, well you get the idea), I fully intend to have rocking sex, by myself or partnered, until I can no longer hold, sit on or rub against a vibrator....more

Rainy Days and Mondays Really...Are Perfect for Sexy Stay-cations

Waking up to another gray day, my desire to get away from it all reasserts itself. I can still feel it kicking me in the shins. But, finding the time and money for an all out vacation relegates all hopes of chilling on a tropical beach to the fantasy files. As a country, America pretty much sucks when it comes to bestowing vacation time upon its workforce. You can more clearly see our Puritan work ethic kicking in by looking at some statistics....more

I like your ideas more than the one I usually use on grey days-catch up on my sewing projects. ...more