What I learned about other people the older I got.

When we were in highschool, most of us wanted to be popular, or have the most friends. I remember in Freshman year, I made 20 friends and by the time I was  a senior, the group was down to  about 6-8 girls.Today, I talk to one or two VIA FACEBOOK and one I see about twice a year. This is normal. We mature at different rates or we have different interests, or go off to different colleges....more

Rude Shit People Say to a Pregnant Woman

Have you ever noticed the pregnant rant statuses on Facebook? I have, from several people. And I thought to myself, who would say such a thing to a pregnant woman? I now believe every pregnant person goes through it.  Meaning... the rude comments and questions.I am only 4.5 months and gained about 9-10 pounds so far. Personally the only thing that has changed to me is - my ass  got plump (and I like it) - my face got a little rounder - and obviously my gut is growing. (DUH)...more


Since my friends got a kick out of my "LIST" that I wrote when I was 22, I decided to  write a new list for my single girls to follow. Now I am a 30 year old, so my friends are over 27. This is the list you should follow.  Because THE QUEEN said so....more

What If Bruce Jenner/ Caitlyn Jenner was your husband/father?

I know everyone is going on and on about how brave Bruce Jenner is for becoming Caitlyn Jenner. And yes I agree.  But did you sit there and imagine if your own father told you he always wanted to be a woman? OR if your husband suddenly was showing signs of this?...more

Being a SONGWRITER means you have to be a PRODUCER too

I come from a musical family. My father is in a band with his brothers since he was about 8 years old. My sister and I write songs. My cousin raps, and 3 other cousins sing as well. My sister Maria and Alexa can sing, I can sing too but not as strong. ...more

Did You Like the CGI Effects Used on Paul Walker's Final Performance in 'Furious 7?'

My husband and I decided to go see Furious 7. This is the last movie that actor Paul Walker appeared in before he tragically died.  I was anxious to see the CGI effects used to finish the film to see if I could tell which parts were the  computerized versions of him and which parts were his final performance. ...more

It is NOT OK to be the OTHER WOMAN

I have read a couple of blogs on here about being the "OTHER WOMAN." If you like someone in another relationship whether or not he is married, it is NOT OKAY to get involved. Women make up all these excuses as to why they start something with a man who is already involved. The same goes for Men.  They say,"He is not happy with his Wife/GF""They got together young""He said that he is going to break up with her anyway"...more
I agree!  Be smart and don't be the other woman.  Set a better standard for yourself.  You want ...more

Being an Adult vs. Being a kid

Do you remember when you were a kid and you used to say "I can't wait to be an adult." Well now that I am an adult, I wish I was still a little kid. Little children's biggest worries are if the other kid is going to share that toy.  I remember going to my grandparents house with the whole family, playing with my 25 cousins. Wednesdays was McDonald's day and my dad or the other uncles would take turns taking us to McDonald's after school. Dancing in the yard was always fun too....more

Do You Believe in GHOSTS & the Afterlife?

I know what you may think? Ghosts? Come on girl! But wait I have proof!My family and I are known to be spiritual in some way or another. My cousin Lucia sees a little girl in a bedroom almost everynight. She feels her and sees her with her white nightgown staring at the mirror. She says she used to be scared of her but not anymore. Ever since Lucia changed the decor of her room, she has not really seen the little girl ghost that she calls "Emily." A medium asked her - "Do you see a little girl? She wants you to know her name is Camille."...more


You know what annoys me? The media. They make people mad over something that has nothing to do with the situation.  Why do they have to title things : WHITE COP KILLS BLACK MAN.  Why can't they write: MIDDLE-AGED MAN KILLED BY OFFICER.And some people fall for it! I am sure there is racism still these days but not just for blacks. Some people say "Oh your family is in the mafia?" because I am Italian.  That is just ignorance. I just shrug it off - what can you do? Do I cause a scene? Do I get violent? NO because that is TRASHY....more