Monday Again: Something to Get Us Through

It's Monday. Again. It also snowed in Chicago so that glimmering hope of spring has been put on hold ....more

I Was A Misguided Kindergartener | Career Goals

When I was in kindergarten, I thought being a waitress was the coolest job on the planet. It was the career I said I longed for at my kindergarten graduation, to the entire crowd. I should really explain the context of that last statement ....more

How Does Your Weight Affect Your Sex Life?

For most adults, we've all had periods of fitness changes; we lose weight/gain muscle in the summer, we gain weight/lose tone in the winter. And whether it's five pounds or two dress sizes, how we perceive ourselves has little to do with the actual number. So, during the times of change, how was weight/fitness level affected your sex life? ...more

Survey: How Has Weight Loss/Gain Affected Your Sex Life?

Hello, a reader reached out to me via email and asked why I don't do more surveys like the ones featured in Warning Sign and Secret Stuff. My answer? I didn't know you guys wanted more ....more

Fifty Shades of Grey: Before You See The Damn Movie 2

This is part two of "Fifty Shades of Grey: Before You See The Damn Movie." Read the first part here. ...more

Fifty Shades of Grey: Before You See The Damn Movie

Oh yes, the new big thing. Fifty...more

Finding Sexy Plus Size Swimwear

Let's find attractive plus size swimwear together, because it wasn't always so easy: I remember being a size 10 and shopping for a swim suit in a department store for Spring Break. I had lost some weight and looked forward to finding a two piece to show off my smaller waist, back, hips and ass. This is how I pictured myself in the store's suits, sans surf board So as I grabbed swim ...more

Finding Plus Size Swimwear 2015

Let's find attractive plus size swimwear together, because it wasn't always so easy: I remember being a size 10 and shopping for a swim suit for Spring Break. I had lost some weight and looked forward to finding a two piece to show off my smaller waist, back, hips and ass. So as I grabbed swim suits to try on, I was hesitant to think the small cup sizes of 10, 12 and 14 might fit, but remained ...more

Times When I Should Have Been Batman

I think there's a little Batman in all of us -- yes, even the girls (hold your double entendre). But the dark knight isn't just dressed to kick ass, he's also stealthy, sneaky, direct, aggressive and clever. Those are helpful qualities in life's troubling times ....more

No Resolution: The 12 Months of Fear Project

Whether this is your first time reading my blog, or more, you might not have guessed that I am pretty much afraid of everything. I used to be a wild, unplanned spirit who did as she pleases. Fear was an after thought ....more