'Magic Mike XXL' Is Really About the Magic of Women

You need to see Magic Mike XXL.Before you prepare to type a 300-word dissenting opinion, hear me out. Yes, of course Channing Tatum’s body melts even the coldest Ice Queen’s heart and nether regions, but perhaps you’ll consider some things you’d not thought of before, particularly as they relate to the business of pleasure and women’s empowerment....more

4 Blogs to Help You Find the Perfect Wedding Gift

I haven't been to a wedding in over five years. This year? I've been invited to FOUR! I can only attend two because of my schedule, but I want to at least try to send a gift to the couples whose ceremonies I will miss.It's easy for me to write a check; I know that's what I wanted when I got married. When a couple has lived together and/or has amassed full homes-worth of items, it seems like money is the best gift to help them get started with their new life as a united, legal entity....more

National Orgasm Day: Come One, Come All!

It's time to celebrate!!July 31 is National Orgasm Day!!Maybe.For several years now, there has been a bit of mostly online-based lore about celebrating orgasms on July 31. There was a website about it at some point, I'm sure, and we know that is all it takes these days to make a holiday real, right? The success of "Steak And Blowjob Day" is credited to the perpetuation of lore via online memes and yes, an official website. Let's just roll with it. ...more
Damn. I missed it. That figures.more

Leading Infidelity Dating Site, Ashley Madison, Was Hacked

According to The Guardian, Ashley Madison, the popular dating site for people looking to have extramarital affairs, was hacked by people claiming they want the site shut down completely. It is believed to be an inside job, but that has not yet been confirmed....more
Well if there is one website I don't mind getting hacked is THIS ONE!more

It's Time to Believe Bill Cosby's Accusers

In a 2005 deposition in which Bill Cosby gave sworn testimony, he admitted that he obtained “Quaaludes with the intent of giving them to young women he wanted to have sex with” and admitted to giving them to at least one woman “and some others”....more
May I ask why 47 women saying nearly the same thing isn't enough for you?more

Why We Should Stop Focusing on "Gay Marriage"

The Supreme Court recently legalized same-sex marriage in every state and, as to be expected, celebrations broke out around the country marking the momentous occasion. Cheers, tears, and even jeers poured forth as people from all walks of life either heralded or condemned the decision to extend equal marriage rights and protections to same-sex couples. “Gay Marriage” blazed across the headlines and continues to be one of the most talked about issues in the media....more
I have been married once. That marriage lasted all of seven years simply because we married too ...more

How Will YOU Celebrate International Kissing Day?

July 6 has been dubbed "International Kissing Day", and all around the world, people celebrate it by puckering up with loved ones (or, face it, whoever is at the theatre with you, 90 minutes into the newest Rom-Com)....more
the love of my life is a million miles away we can only text because he is in the armed forces ...more

Love Was the Lie I Kept Telling Myself

I remember the first time I thought I was in love. I knew, then, that this was it. This was all I needed. He was THE ONE. He had perfect skin, a killer smile, and was the funniest of all of his friends. He wore the best clothes and he when we spoke, he made me feel like I was the most special, beautiful girl in the whole world.I was 11. We were in the 5th grade. And… he didn’t exactly know how I felt about him, mainly because he was “going steady” with another girl who was a lot prettier than I was....more
Great article. Thanks for sharing. I think so many of us have been there. Love is a tricky ...more

This Ramadan, I'm Fasting With My Muslim Boyfriend

We "met" on Twitter, but we MET during Ramadan....more
thats a great article, congrats, you did very challenge pray beauty :)more

I Want You to Get to #KnowMe at #BlogHer15

When Kimberle Crenshaw accepted my friend request on Facebook, I squealed and posted the screen shot on Instagram....more
Thank you @feministajones! I love this post.more