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 Sometimes people's idea of patriotism baffles me. You can be patriotic and love your country and still question the actions of our government. But some people believe their views must be congruent with what the government does - no exception. Or they think being patriotic means a dislike for other countries. But I disagree. We are a global society and we happen to have a country that we are proud of. ...more

Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life

In the movie about Margaret Thatcher, called The Iron Lady, Margaret's character says a very thought-provoking quote to a doctor who was treating her with an air of condescendence. Watch your thoughts; they become your words.Watch your words; they become your actions. Watch your actions; they become habit. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny....more
Carrie, I love your writing....Just discovered yours because you commented on mine....It is ...more


 I used to write poetry a long time ago, until I realized that it was a waste of time (for me). I now know I was never truly good at it. You can't really make money off it. It rarely changes people's lives. But, it was a good outlet to express myself and my adolescent angst....more

How do I delete a blog post?

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Ugly Arguments

Did my husband really call me ugly during a heated disagreement? I know everyone gets angry and sometimes people say mean things. But this low blow is sure to leave an emotional scar that may never heal completely. It's hard to imagine any other marriage suffers from ugly ups and downs before the right communication happens. But people tell me all the time to take off my rose colored glasses. No marriage is perfect. ...more
Carrie, I have been dealing with an issue of looking at other women with the guy I am seeing and ...more

When He Looks at Other Women...

Can a man make a woman feel like she's the only woman in the room? Maybe that's unrealistic. It would feel fantastic. What do you do when a man makes you know you're not the only woman in the room, and perhaps makes you even realize that these other women are younger, hotter, dressed better and have better hair? When a man looks at other women repeatedly, in a way that makes you feel threatened, it can appear like he's not done hunting for the one, even if you are his "one."...more
That is bs. Open your eyes. Boys will be boys is a lame excuse to allow someone to continually ...more