The Key to a Long Lasting Relationship: CONTROL! ALT! ESCAPE! DELETE!--Ha, Not the Man but the Shortcuts!
Remember in my last blog when I said a wife strike doesn't have to be too dramatic, but it takes patience? If we want to experience success in obtaining longevity in relationships with a touch of personal happiness, we must establish various foundations that will result in happiness and peace of mind thus leading to longevity. One building block for longevity is patience. Patience is to longevity as a step is to a staircase, a room is to a house, and a key to a keyboard.The point?Control, Alt, Escape, Delete the shortcuts:1. Control what happens in your relationship by thinking things through without being so quick to react.2. Unlock alternate ways of doing things that will result in positive energy from both you, your companion, and the things and/or people in your extended family (friends and family members) that could possibly make or break your relationship.3. Escape from negative things that cloud your mind, spirit, and heart.4. Most importantly, DELETE, DELETE DELETE the crap, bull, haters, enemies, impossibles, roadblocks, SHORTCUTS...Are you following me?Get the point?Heck, take a Wife Strike! I guarantee you and him will be whispering sweet nothings to each other at least twice a week (3, 4, or 5 if you're naughty!) versus twice a year. In my last blog, I gave you a little insight into what it means to take a Wife Strike. Well, in this blog, I'm going to flashback to my wedding day, the day that happened before I realized a Wife Strike was even possible. You know, you can take a Wife Strike before becoming a wife. Kinda like The Real Housewives of Atlanta and Basketball Wives. Heck, most of them aren't even married, but they carry the wife title proudly. Being a wife is a state of mind. I'll eventually explain that too! Eventually. One day. When the time is right. For now, let me stick to the topic at hand: My Wedding Day. This was the day I truly needed to take a Wife Strike. You know, I didn't even get a chance to scream, "YOU DA MAN! YEA BABY!"If you gotta go tinkle, grab a glass of wine, yell "Stop" to the kids for a moment, or "Stop" to HIM for a moment, go ahead before proceeding from your world into mine. Read more >