If It Hurts Too Much to Stay... Leave

If It Hurts Too Much to Stay... Leave

And you keep doing it. Because you can. You are strong and brave. you have been beaten down, but you are more than this. You are a warrior and a survivor. And you are more than this, you are a story meant to be told. You are wings, free and waiting to soar.

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