I Am Drowning in Lists
My son and I are at the grocery store and a family passes us. The family has this conversation:
"What do we need again?"
"I don't know —I think cheese."
"Don't we have cheese?"
"It might not be the right kind."
My son hears all this and says to me, "Those people are not list people, Mommy."
I am a bit proud. And somewhat terrified.
Hi. My name is Lauren, and I am a list person. I keep lists for all sorts of things. I have grocery shopping lists and weekly menu plans. I keep monthly event lists, and blog topic lists, and story idea lists. I have lists for music I want to purchase when I get back to my computer, and lists for things I want to do next season. And I keep lists of projects I want to finish.
In other words, I am drowning in lists.
Which made me wonder if lists were as good an organizational tool as I thought they were. So I read this older study about why lists don't work, and then made a list of reasons I am going to stubbornly keep making them:
- My memory is failing me. Two things I can remember. Three? I have to write it down.
- Some lists are communal. And yes, I expect other family members to contribute to the shopping list (this is a work in progress).
- I keep them all in one location. It's not like I have five notebooks laying around. I have one big one with all my lists in it. (And a small one. And that grocery one ... okay, I try to keep them all together.)
- I really, really like crossing things off my to-do list. And I know I am not alone on that.
So I'm going to stick with my lists. Incidentally, a few days after our shopping trip, my son handed my a piece of paper with some scribbles on it and said, "Here, Mommy, I made you a list."
That's my boy!