5 Ways To Give and Receive More Oral Sex

5 Ways To Give and Receive More Oral Sex

Selfishness: Choose Wisely

Young people can be very self-centered in sex, especially guys. For me, a man’s willingness to do oral and enjoyment of same has been a required selection criteria in adult relationships. 

Ladies, whether you are 19 or 90, if you start sleeping with a guy who treats being near your pussy similar to having to remove hair clogs from the shower drain, this is not what you want in a long term relationship.


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Although cunnilingus may not be critical to you now, a man’s fear or revulsion of your genital area may not go away later when you want better sex for yourself. Think twice before committing too much to a partner like this.



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