The Older We Are, The More Confident We Feel?
When I was younger, if you were a female of my current age who dressed sexily and seductively, in super-low-cut outfits and "f-me" stilettos, with a theatrical amount of makeup on your face, I would have totally wanted to be your friend. I would have found you daring and exciting, someone whose orbit I wanted to be in. I imagined you as being confident and bold, so much fun to be around, a woman—a feminist, I hoped—secure enough to dress as you wanted. "Co-opting the male gaze," so to speak.
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