So You Want to Be a SAHM? Check Out These Tips to Become a Single Income Family
When people ask what I do for a living and I say, “I’m a stay at home mom,” they usually reply with, “Oh, well aren’t you lucky.”
I get what they’re saying, but I hate the term lucky. Yes, I am blessed with this opportunity. I try every day to not take it for granted. I know a lot of mothers wish that they could be home, raising their children full-time. I love that I am able to invest all of my time into my daughter. And I’m thankful for it.
With that being said, it isn’t easy living off of one income and being a family of three, plus a dog the size of a ten year old kid. It takes a lot of work. We didn’t plan for me to not return to work until about halfway through my maternity leave. We took a long look at our budget and stretched it, making things work.
We live comfortably. We don’t have excess. But I’m happy with that. I’d rather have memories than “stuff.”
I wanted to share some tips on how we make things work and still enjoy our life. Because really, I want you all to enjoy yours too.
one|| ADJUST. Once we decided I wasn’t going to be going back to work, we started living off of Nate’s income right then and there. It was good practice while we still had a bit of a safety net since I was still on my paid maternity leave. It gave us a taste of what it would be like and how we would need to adjust.
two|| THE BUDGET. I keep an Excel spreadsheet of all of our monthly bills and the dates that they are due. I plan ahead about four months and delegate enough from each paycheck to cover the bills in that pay-period. What is left is spread between paying off debt and cash in our pocket.
three|| LIVE OFF CASH, LOSE THE CREDIT. In order to make our efforts to pay down our debt fruitful and not futile, we hardly ever use our credit card or line of credit. Sometimes things happen and we need to, but for day-to-day spending we stick to cash. You’ll spend less money if you use dollar bills and not plastic cards.
four|| GROCERY PLANNING. I didn’t start doing this until a few months ago, and I wish I started this when Nate and I first got married! We save probably close to $200 a month by not eating out on weeknights. If I plan our meals ahead of time, I am more likely to cook. Planning ahead takes out that last minute panic that we all dread. When we grocery shop, we know exactly what we need for our meals and are able to choose accordingly. That saves us money right there: No throwing random food into our cart hoping that it could cook itself into a meal!
five|| FIND A HOBBY THAT PAYS. Okay, I have yet to really get into this one. But my husband has! He loves hockey (we’re Canadian after all), so in the winter he refs games. He loves it, skating is a workout, and it pays!
six|| TITHE. How can we reap if we don’t sow? Nate and I notice an increase of blessing (monetary and otherwise) when we diligently and regularly tithe.
I realize some of these suggestions a lot of you may be doing already, and that’s great! Part of my mission is to encourage and inspire women, and I hope this does that. Oh and for the record, I searched high and low to find a nice jovial family pic of all of us for this post… there isn’t a single one of us since Hannah’s newborn pictures. She’s almost a year old!
If you have some specific questions for me regarding anything that I’ve mentioned, feel free to shoot off an email! You can contact me here.
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