The month of October is a month of awareness. October is Breast Cancer Awareness month and it is also Domestic Violence Awareness Month. It is a month to inform women of our positions in life.
The position of keeping our minds aware and hearts opened. We are such beautiful creatures and we truly deserve to be celebrated. Women are the givers of life and we beautify the earth with our love, patience, smiles and hospitality. Mothers love, protect and guide their families in the right direction. Mothers keeps the family together and keeps the home where it should be.
But, there are so many mothers that live in fear everyday and every night. They go to bed, sometimes the enemy is out at night drinking all night long. In fear, the women are wondering if their boyfriend or husband is going to come home and become even more unbearable than they already are. They are scared that he is going to be even more abusive and hateful than he already is. They are scared for their lives. If they have children, they are scared for their children. They can't live normal lives, because of abuse, fear, torture and depression. So many of the women don't feel like they are worthy of the best. They feel like they don't anyone to talk to or anywhere to go.
Misery consumes their lives. And you know what? The time is overdue, for a change. It is high time that things change and that things get better. It's time for these women to be free and live the way God intended. He didn't intend for some of his most beautiful creations to be abused, disrepected and ignored. He didn't intend for us to be with people that can't love us. People whom are incapable of loving and appreciating a woman. He wants us to be loved and appreciated, respected and cherished. He wants a Man to love us, in the way he created him to.
Any kind of abuse is abuse. Regardless of it's size.
Violence, Sexual, Verbal, abuse is abuse. And each one, needs to be talked about, fixed and eliminated permanently! We can do that. We can help put an end to this. We can fix this situation and make sure that it never rises again. We must be able to take care of ourselves.One of the many tragedies on the planet is abuse. And according to statistics, we all know somebody that is being abused or has been. You may not think so, because you don't hear them talk about it. And that's another problem. People are too scared to talk about it. They are too scared to tell people what's going on and let people in to help. Many of these women are your friends, colleagues, family, and neighbors. They are living in misery and despair.
Often times, they are too unsure of how they are going to about getting out of the situation. We all know pretty much way that they feel when they found out about things. They were think about going the whole way. And these women don't need to be the next story on the Premiere episode of Snapped!
We need to do what we can help stop this. You wouldn't want your daughter to be in this situation, nor would you like to be in this situation. Let us come together and work on making this terror history. We can do it.
Let us remember, to talk about it. Let us not be afraid to discuss this subject. And secondly, Domestic Violence Awareness month is not just for October. This should be a conversation that is held as often as possible. We should not just be trying to do something this month and then let it go for the rest of the months. We have to fight, because these women are dealing with this misery eveyday! EVERYDAY!!!! That is something to think about. But, for these women, this is their reality. Harsh & mean. But,it won't last always. I know that it won't. So, let us make sure that we are better listeners and better friends. These are the things that matters the most. Let us pray for each other and be there for one another. After all Ladies, Every single woman is in the same boat. So many people will disagree. But, what I mean is that every woman deal with insecurities, hurt and then can turn it around be happy with just as much bliss. Well, I say that it's high time these women have something to be generally happy about. They deserve that and so do their children.