An Abusive Marriage?

An Abusive Marriage?

She told me that they went to marriage counseling before. The marriage counselor told her that her husband really loves her and wants to make the relationship work. I think the marriage counselor’s perspective may have been distorted because she only spoke to the husband one-on-one and then met them as a couple. She never met with my friend individually to hear her side of the relationship.

Am I overreacting? Do you think my friend could be in an emotionally abusive relationship?

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